It is both frustration for the injured victim along with family and friends. How does it affect people and what can be done?
Look, after many years living with memory loss from an accident, it is very frustrating and annoying. As a victim of an injury it is very hard at times to accept and move forward. Yet it is also possible to move forward and make big things happen.
Look, after many years living with memory loss from an accident, it is very frustrating and annoying. As a victim of an injury it is very hard at times to accept and move forward. Yet it is also possible to move forward and make big things happen.
The hard part is when you lose a few friends as you may have forgotten who they are or you maybe not the same person as they remember and like all things, people do move on to something different.
Memory loss is different to each person, and how and what you do will create your future.
I look back at the accident I had in 1990 and with very little memory of the first 30 years of my life and the years since have been a real problem. If you have memory loss or know someone who has, it is a very real problem.
So how could you use your memory loss as a positive and move forward and complete 10 big goals like I have over the past years?
You see, you have something which is very hard to turn off, A Loss of Memory, the thing is, most people will get depressed and or lose patience. It is hard, not remembering a lot of things really makes life hard to live in.
Yet, after much time of thinking and disappointed about this, it was important to consider the fact, if it is gone it is gone.
So, it is better to think more about your now and future. It is easy to spend time on your past, on history, but, as we know history is just that it can not be changed at all.
Think forward. Your now and future is more important as you need to make a difference, that is you need to make a life that will include a job, getting assistance and working at how the remainder of life will treat you.
Look, you could be depressed and think hard and wonder about the past. But, will that get you a job, maybe a house or what you need now? Sure we need to know. The important thing is to get your future sorted.
Starting a job, even as a office boy was a big come down for my start forward, yet, making that time a big learning curve and working hard and ensuring I knew exactly what I was doing was very important.
It allowed me to get a great job, and doing a course also ensured the future was brighter with an income and a sense of being.
Is it hard? well, I figure it is as hard as you decide to make it. Just think of it as a new way to be you and do something that will help your finances, family and pride.
Sure, it may not be what you want, the important thing is doing what you need to get ahead. To get that job might be hard and you may even think it is impossible.
Just remember, it is only impossible if you decide to think that way. When you decide to do something, it is incredible about what is possible. Without no real memory pre accident. And getting a job in the office. With a few weeks before starting. It was time to learn how to type. Before the accident I was a mechanic on mine sites.
So within a few days, working hard and a lot of practise. Learning to touch type in days was the 2nd of many goals which are just really exciting to be able to do.
Remember we can still think of the past. Yet we need to think of the future. Imagine if you decide to make a change and do something positive, your future will be far better than contemplating on the past.
Please leave a comment and let me know your thoughts. In 2019 a new book will be released, my autobiography and a self confidence course, coming soon.
Look, you could be depressed and think hard and wonder about the past. But, will that get you a job, maybe a house or what you need now? Sure we need to know. The important thing is to get your future sorted.
Starting a job, even as a office boy was a big come down for my start forward, yet, making that time a big learning curve and working hard and ensuring I knew exactly what I was doing was very important.
It allowed me to get a great job, and doing a course also ensured the future was brighter with an income and a sense of being.
Is it hard? well, I figure it is as hard as you decide to make it. Just think of it as a new way to be you and do something that will help your finances, family and pride.
Sure, it may not be what you want, the important thing is doing what you need to get ahead. To get that job might be hard and you may even think it is impossible.
Just remember, it is only impossible if you decide to think that way. When you decide to do something, it is incredible about what is possible. Without no real memory pre accident. And getting a job in the office. With a few weeks before starting. It was time to learn how to type. Before the accident I was a mechanic on mine sites.
So within a few days, working hard and a lot of practise. Learning to touch type in days was the 2nd of many goals which are just really exciting to be able to do.
Remember we can still think of the past. Yet we need to think of the future. Imagine if you decide to make a change and do something positive, your future will be far better than contemplating on the past.
Please leave a comment and let me know your thoughts. In 2019 a new book will be released, my autobiography and a self confidence course, coming soon.
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